The confluence of our preparations for the road and today’s Supreme Court proceedings has pointed to an interesting coincidence in the provenance of the two treasures above.
The vintage wooden clown was a birthday gift from my first spouse Donna, to whom I was married for a long while and with whom I share two amazing children. The kinetic yard ornament is a birthday gift from Dave, who has been at my side for the last two decades. Each was spotted while I was in the company of the spouse in question. In each case a discussion followed which reasonably concluded that it would be silly to spend the amount asked, for something so impractical.
And in each case the spouse in question snuck back and purchased the impractical. Knowing how much delight it would bring to their sometimes impractical spouse.
I love Donna today as much as ever, but in a wiser way that comes of age and a better understanding of who I am. My love for Dave is the kind that comes from knowing there is no kinder, more caring person anywhere with whom I could spend my life.
Each love different. Each love equal.
As I hope the Supreme Court comes to understand.
The big wooden clown, heavy as he is, isn’t suited for nomadic life and has gone off to live with daughter Jennifer for a spell. The yard ornament will be coming along to be planted in whatever ground we land upon at any particular point in our voyage—claiming it as home.
Dear Dale, as I read your beautifully written blog, I found myself smiling and then found myself in tears. I remember when I first met you 25 years ago at some event with Ad Club, then Ad Fed, now AAF-BR, as if the name really matters. All I know is that since I left BR almost a year ago, I found those same
feelings you are sorting through. I miss the fun of Louisiana, there truly isn’t another place like it as you know. I needed to get away so when I do go back I can start all over with my happy memories. As I look at the exquisite Texas sunsets, that LA doesn’t match, I try every evening to appreciate them, because I don’t want to get so used to them, they become commonplace.
I went to so many different LA fun things, that I got too used to them and literally burned out. So enjoy your travels with Dave and know that I will miss your wit, charm, talent and caring soul. I look forward to keeping up with you through your blogs. God bless and Happy Easter to you both. Safe travels my friend.
Way ta Go guys ! You deserve your dreams and adventure….go for it…be safe, keep in touch and if you’re ever in Tampa-St Pete….look me up love to see ya.
Remember, stay in the slow lane, swing wide when making turns…keep your sense of humor..
your friend
Rick
Very sweet plan. I am looking forward to hearing of your adventures. Drive safe! Turn up the tunes.
I’ve read your commercial work, your publication writings and your blog…but this is the best piece you ever wrote. So wise. So heartfelt. So loving.
Thank you.
Sandy
I’m catching up on your blog, and this entry made me cry. So sweet, and generous of spirit. Can’t wait to read more! Safe travels, and as the truckers used to say, “Keep ‘er between the ditches”.